This week’s events: out and about [ Bus1nessN3wz ]

A jamboree of vegan-based madness with speed dating, film screenings and food stalls.

Central Methodist Hall

Seventeen hours of mortality-based frolics with talks and screenings of horror classics such as Ealing’s Dead Of Night.

The Bluecoat

The Italian booze brand provide some cultural titbits and a screening of Paolo Sorrentino’s The Great Beauty.

41 Portland Place, W1

The Shoreditch creative hub launches its new book with a typically trendy shindig of talks, films, etc.

Red Gallery, EC2

The city is visited by authors including Chuck “Fight Club” Palahniuk.

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Obamacare woes frustrating Democrats’ 2014 prospects [ Bus1nessN3wz ]

By Richard Cowan

WASHINGTON (Reuters) – The chaotic launch of President Barack Obama’s healthcare law has Democrats in Congress increasingly anxious about its potential impact on them in the 2014 elections and scrambling to protect themselves if the program’s problems persist.

Particularly nervous is a group of 16 Senate Democrats who are defending their seats next year, as Republicans will seek a net gain of six seats to try to take over the 100-seat chamber.

Some of the Democrats, such as New Hampshire’s Jeanne Shaheen, represent states where enthusiasm has been high for the Affordable Care Act. Among other things, the law aims to provide inexpensive health insurance to many of the estimated 15 million Americans with little or no coverage.

Others, such as Mark Pryor of Arkansas and Mary Landrieu of Louisiana, represent conservative states where skepticism has been fueled by Republican attack ads discouraging participation.

The balky website, HealthCare.gov, has been unable to process an untold number of applications for insurance since its debut on October 1, and the frustration both types of Democrats have had with it was evident on Thursday.

White House Chief of Staff Denis McDonough was summoned to the Capitol for a closed-door meeting with all Senate Democrats and peppered with “tough and pointed” questions about the program, one Senate Democratic leadership aide said.

The senators told McDonough that they wanted to see more progress in getting the site working efficiently, and that the administration had to do a better job of communicating its successes and failures in implementing the biggest legislative achievement of Obama’s presidency.

Telephone calls and letters from disappointed constituents began pouring into Shaheen’s offices almost immediately after enrollment in Obamacare began with a thud last month, when it immediately became clear that navigating HealthCare.gov was vexed.

Administration officials have said most of the site’s problems will be fixed by November 30.

Even so, Shaheen gathered nine other Democratic senators to encourage the White House to extend the initial enrollment period beyond March 31.

“The rollout of the new law was a disaster. The administration had three years to prepare,” Shaheen told Reuters. “They clearly dropped the ball.”

The senator is feeling pressure from voters partly because she was a vocal advocate of the healthcare law, which could help about 130,000 uninsured people in her tiny state, as well as many others who have insurance that does not cover preexisting health conditions or that has significant limits on benefits.

Shaheen is widely seen as having a strong chance of winning a second six-year term next year. But several other Senate Democrats running for reelection, including Pryor and Landrieu, are likely to face tough challenges from conservative Republicans.

Obamacare’s stumbles are a particular problem for them as they defend a landmark law they helped write and still believe in.

LIMITING THE DOWNSIDE

Several Democrats have offered proposals that could be rushed onto the Senate floor if computer wizards cannot make the healthcare site more functional within the next month – and if a controversy does not die down over revelations that some people will lose health insurance plans they like, despite Obama’s earlier assurances to the contrary.

Landrieu said Wednesday that she was crafting a bill to allow anyone who is satisfied with their current insurance to retain it.

Senator Joe Manchin, a conservative Democrat who is not up for reelection next year but whose state is increasingly trending Republican, has called for a one-year delay in requiring individuals to sign up for health insurance, echoing arguments made by many Republican lawmakers.

Of the 10 Senate Democrats urging an extension of the March 31 deadline for people to sign up or face a penalty, seven, including Shaheen, face reelection next year.

“The fundamental reason for doing the Affordable Care Act continues to exist,” Shaheen said. “Prices for health insurance were going up at a rate that was increasingly unaffordable. Too many were not able to get health insurance.”

But the snafus have raised her and other Democrats’ political antennae.

If “getting too far out on a limb” for Obamacare started to feel risky and the limb began to crack, said Dante Scala, a political science professor at the University of New Hampshire, Shaheen is “going to get closer to the trunk of the tree.

“That’s what we’re seeing” in the proposal to extend the Obamacare enrollment deadline, Scala said. While looking out for her constituency, “I think she’s trying to limit her personal downside,” too.

The frustration among Democrats is also evident in the Republican-led U.S. House of Representatives. They are not likely to win enough votes to take over the 435-seat chamber, where the Republican majority has voted more than 40 times to repeal Obamacare, claiming it will destroy jobs and raise medical costs.

Some Democrats describe feeling let down by the administrative shortcomings.

Democratic Representative Elijah Cummings of Maryland told Reuters that he offered some firm advice to Obama during a recent meeting.

“I think what the president has to do (is) … own the problem,” Cummings said. “Then he’s got to say, step-by-step, exactly how it’s being fixed and what kind of progress is being made.”

TROUBLE AHEAD?

For now, the Democrats are mostly stuck in a wait-and-see mode, hoping the administration meets its self-imposed November 30 deadline for eliminating the website’s glitches.

“If the Obama administration fixes it and people start signing up, then we’re in a good spot,” said a Senate Democratic aide, “and you won’t see much of a liability” from the messy rollout. If they don’t, “then we’re going to have trouble” heading into the 2014 elections.

Democratic lawmakers have indicated it is increasingly urgent that people in their states begin to see benefits from Obamacare soon, or else the situation will feed critics’ claims that the program is a failure.

Pryor is the only remaining Democrat in the congressional delegation representing Arkansas, where Obama was trounced by Republican Mitt Romney in the presidential election last year.

During an interview with Reuters, he said misperceptions about Obamacare dominate many of his conversations with constituents. Some people didn’t like it, but “others who have looked at the (costs) … are actually pleased.”

He said some voters have been led to believe that the government itself is selling insurance, rather than arranging for the sale of coverage from private carriers, with government subsidies reducing costs for those with lower incomes.

By the November 2014 elections, people will have had about a year’s worth of experience with Obamacare, Pryor said. He cited private studies projecting that the law will help rural hospitals and the overall economy in Arkansas.

Republicans see an opposite scenario, one they say will boost their election chances next year.

The National Republican Congressional Committee, which strives to elect Republicans to the House of Representatives, is targeting seven seats held by Democrats who represent districts that have voted for Republicans in the last three presidential elections.

Several of those Democrats proudly voted for the healthcare act, said spokeswoman Andrea Bozek. “Now it’s time for them to be accountable for the failures of this law.”

(Editing by David Lindsey and Prudence Crowther)

• Politics & Government
• Health
• Barack Obama
• Senate Democrats
• Mary Landrieu
• Jeanne Shaheen
• health insurance
• Mark Pryor

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Pet-Friendly Winter Getaways That Pamper You and Your Pooch! [ Bus1nessN3wz ]

Pet Friendly Resorts Skiing with Dogs

Winter is upon us. It's the perfect time of year to cozy up to the fireplace with a cup of hot cocoa! But what about pets with cabin fever? Animal Fair has compiled a list of pet-friendly resorts that are winter wonderlands full of scenic outdoor activities and inviting, relaxing rooms. From California to New York, we have provided you with pet-savvy establishments that will cater to your four-legged friends with special pet amenities that will keep you both warm and content!

Sorensen's Resort - Hope Valley, California

Since 1926, the Sorensen's Resort has offered skiing, biking, rafting, and much more. The hotel is located in California's Hope Valley, a pristine pocket of the Sierra Mountains, 20 miles south of Lake Tahoe. The best part is that pets are welcome. "We have lots of outdoor programs at Sorensen's," said owner Patty Brissenden. "Isn't the point to enjoy the mountains with your pet, whether it's skiing or hiking?"

And that's just what pet owners can expect here. "We always love our pets and feel having some  pet-friendly cabins at our resort is good," Brissenden said. "Since we are kid friendly, have weddings, honeymooners, anniversary couples, family reunions, we thought … why not pets?"

They offer an array of amenities for your pet. "We keep doggie bowls for food and water in the cabins and offer a taste upon arrival," she added. Of course, they also take into consideration special needs of people. "We try to balance it out for all," said John Brissenden, co-owner. "We ask that all dogs remain in leashes, and we try to accommodate anyone with allergies. We want everyone to be happy."

"Our staff is very friendly," Brissenden says. "I also think our history will attract pet owners," he added. "We have programs for pet owners to bond with their pets as well as programs for the pet owner to unwind." Don't hesitate to pack your bags and take your pup on a vacation to Sorensen's Resort this winter!

Prices range from $ 140 to $ 395 per night and pets can stay for free!

Sorensen's Resort

800.423.9949

www.sorensensresort.com

St. Regis Resort - Aspen, Colorado 

Aspen, Colorado, boasts some of the best skiing in the world for pet owners and their four-legged friends. The St. Regis Resort is the ultimate getaway. "Aspen loves its pets, and we enjoy treating Fido as well as we treat our guests," said Erin Lentz, Promotions Manager.

The St. Regis Resort offers a unique pet program ensuring that your doggie receives royal treatment during your vacation. Every dog is treated to plush, five-inch thick beds with a royal purple seal and individual ceramic dog dishes.

Besides their pet program, the St. Regis Resort also offers a "borrow a pet" program. "We lend dogs out to pet owners or pet lovers who don't have a dog with them," said Maureen Poschman, Public Relations Director. "In fact, some dogs have been adopted from our program." Pet owners and pets alike will enjoy all the beauty Aspen has to offer by going on healthy hikes and scenic walks. Each room is contemporary Alpine décor, and each guest will experience luxurious services.

Prices range from $ 800 to $ 4750 per night for a Presidential Suite. Pet fees: $ 100 per pet, per night, per stay.

St. Regis Resort

800.325.3535

www.stregisaspen.com

The Ritz Carlton, Bachelor Gulch - Vail, Colorado

The Ritz Carlton, Bachelor Gulch located in the Colorado Rockies is considered to be one of the most pet-friendly resorts in the country. On premise, their resident yellow Labrador retriever, Bachelor is available for snow shoe hikes and walks (on a daily limited schedule) throughout the winter season thanks to their exclusive Loan-a-Lab program. This complimentary service is wildly popular with families and children. "It's a great way for the family to bond and have fun," said Steven Holt, Director of Public Relations.

In addition to the Loan-a-Lab program, they also offer a V.I.P. Program (Very Important Pooch). The V.I.P. will receive a set of amenities upon arrival from Bachelor himself, which includes a welcome card, a custom-made gold name tag, a plush dog bed, and homemade dog biscuits at turndown. "Our buildings are inspired by the grand lodges in the turn of the century," said Holt. The Ritz Carlton, Bachelor Gulch is an exquisite North American luxury resort which captures the beauty of the surrounding national forest. This is one winter hot spot where any pet and pet owner would love to stay!

Prices range from $ 265 to $ 625 per night. Pet fees: $ 125 per stay, no matter how many pets you bring!

The Ritz-Carlton

800.241.3333

www.ritzcarlton.com

The Alpine Village Suites - Taos, New Mexico

You will be surrounded with snow-covered mountains, nestled amongst aspen and fir trees, and given lots of space for your pets to run free. The Alpine Suites eagerly welcomes pets. "The owners are animal lovers and have three beautiful dogs of their own," said Manager Alyson Lerner. "They understand people's attachment to pets, and believe that vacations should include pets."

"It's a great holiday choice because of the beautiful surroundings and peace and quiet," said owner, John Cottam.

This winter look into escaping your daily grind by going to one of Taos' newest and most charming hotels, the Alpine Village Suites. This is one destination you should head for to enjoy the natural sights, relish in the serenity and relax while bonding with your pet.

Prices range from $ 75 to $ 315 per night. Pet fees: $ 10 per pet, per night.

The Alpine Village Suites

800.576.2666

www.alpine-suites.com

Lake Placid Lodge - Lake Placid, New York 

Wouldn't any pet and pet owner want to escape the bustling big city to enjoy a natural scenic view and crisp winter air?  Especially since Lake Placid Lodge is only a five-hour drive from New York City, located within the Adirondack Mountains. This luxurious pet-friendly getaway is a member of the Relais & Chateaux, the prestigious Paris based hotel association. "Guests love the opportunity to be out in the Adirondacks with their dogs," said Simone Rathle, Media and Public Relations Consultant. "Lake Placid Lodge has always understood that, so we are more than happy to accommodate them."

At the Lake Placid Lodge, you and your pet will be treated with the utmost amenities you could ever imagine. Your pet can get a wonderful massage from a pet masseuse. This treat will help release all of your pup's pent-up tensions immediately, and the lodge will set the appointment.

For dinner, you and your pet can choose from their large selection of meals. Your dog gets to choose from an array of different meals that include a chicken liver plate and chopped filet mignon. Upscale choices for your upscale pet. Don't they deserve it? They will also receive a doggie bed, dry dog food, and water bowls in their room after they get their goodie-bag of treats.

The lodge charges a $ 75 per pet, per night fee. When Fido is left alone in his room, he must be crated, which can be purchased for $ 25. In addition to the nightly charge a $ 200 deposit is required upon arrival and refundable at departure barring property damage. A small price to pay considering how much healthy fun your dog will have while hiking the mountains with you! This winter, treat yourself and your pet to all the luxuries Lake Placid Lodge has to offer.

Prices range from $ 625 to $ 850 per night.

Lake Placid Lodge

618.532.2700

www.lakeplacidlodge.com

Paws House Inn - West Rutland, Vermont

No dog wants to be treated like a second class member of the family. And pet owners want their pup to feel wanted and invited to travel with them whenever possible. At Paws House Inn, located in Vermont, your dog will never feel like a third wheel. "Some places accept dogs. Other places tolerate them. Here at the Paw House Inn, we cater to dog owners and their dogs," said Mitch Frenkenberg, Owner and Creator of the Paw House Inn.

In 2001, Mitch and Jen Frenkenberg purchased a beautiful 1786 farmhouse and fulfilled their vision of catering to all pet owners and pets by creating The Paw House Inn. Owners of three dogs themselves, the Frenkenbergs are aware of how important a pet owners unique needs are. "We want pet owners to travel with their pets. That is why we geared our inn for people with specific needs."

There isn't any compromising for any pet or pet owner at the Paws House Inn. "We're still one of the only places that takes care of dogs when owners are gone, while other places won't allow owners to leave their pets alone," Frenkenberg says. While lodging at the Paws House Inn, pet owners and pets can find time to bond with each other. There are lots of activities that will keep all busy.

Dogs can participate in hiking, and running beside their owners on biking trails all around the grounds. "We make special accommodations for pet owners to bond with their pets." Guests can also expect top class service. The rooms are beautiful and it's first class," Frenkenberg adds. "Another great thing is that everyone can eat together with their own dogs. It's like a community." What dog wouldn't want to come here for winter?

Prices range from $ 185 to $ 225 per night. Dogs can rest their paws at Paws Inn for free!

Paws House Inn

866.PAW.HOUSE

www.pawhouseinn.com

Four Seasons Resort - Jackson Hole, Wyoming

Four Season has always been dedicated to the highest standards of hospitality, and is geared for the modern traveler. "Four Seasons is known for taking care of their guests; and this includes their pets," said Nicole Burdick, Director of Sales and Marketing. "It's a natural extension of the personalized service we provide."

Pets can expect luxury treatment the same as their owner.  "We provide dog bowls for water and food, homemade doggie treats and bandannas." These are special accommodations for dogs, but if you have a different kind of pet, "we will find a way to accommodate them as well," Burdick adds.

Pet owners will enjoy the "Eastern casual" atmosphere the Four Seasons provides. "Each room has very fine wood work. The idea is to bring the outdoors, indoors." Said Kimberly Huffman, Director of Marketing. "Pets would love it here for the simple fact that they won't be left alone. It's policy that pet owners be with their pet at all times. We have patios which is easy access for dogs to walk in and out of. And pet owners will not only be happy that their pets are happy, but there are also amazing sights and easy ski-in/ski-out access to the Teton Mountains."

Prices range from $ 500 to $ 900 per night. Pets are free, but only if your pooch weighs 15 lbs. or less.

Four Seasons Resort Jackson Hole

307.732.5000

www.fourseasons.com/jacksonhole

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The 10 Commandments For Non-Pet Lovers! [ Bus1nessN3wz ]

Non-Pet Lovers Shall Not Break These Simple Rules

Let's face it—not everyone loves dogs and cats. Some people even downright dislike them. And that can take a toll on even the strongest relationships. Clip this primer and pass it along to your dog-despising friends, feline-fearing family members, or anyone you know who simply doesn't know how to act around your pet.

(Note to you non pet lovers: Hey, we pet lovers know that sometimes we seem strange. But trust us—we love our dogs and cats, and we'll love you for making the effort.)

1. DON'T call our male pet "she" and vice-versa. Perhaps the primary pet peeve of animal owners is hearing their four-legged friend's gender bungled. Seth Mills-Cannon, of Portland, Ore., owner of felines Buzz and Crypto, says it drives him nuts. "I don't like it when people assign the wrong gender to my cats," he says. "Either don't say 'he' or 'she,' or just ask." And hey—why not go the extra mile and learn our pet's name? Then all gender confusion is eliminated. P.S. Ix-nay on using the word "it" to refer to our pets!

2. DO include our pet in plans when possible. We know we can't bring our dogs everywhere, but we'd love it if they were invited to canine-friendly events. San Diego–based speaker and author Susan L. Gilbert, mom to dogs Spencer, Sam, and Anabell, notes, "We all know families who like to bring their children with them to picnics and parties—well, some dog owners feel the same way about their four-legged kids." Gilbert's advice: "Be understanding. As long as a dog is well-behaved, housebroken, and not a shedder, what can it hurt?" And there's a bonus, Gilbert says: "The four-legged kids and the two-legged kids will help amuse each other and allow the adults some adult big-people time."

3. DON'T act disgusted. "You let your dog sleep on your bed?" "Your cat sits in the dining room while you eat?" We can hear that note of revulsion in your voice. And when you make a face and shoo our pet away? We notice that too. Even though you may not understand, we don't think our pets are gross, dirty, or smelly (well, except maybe after they rolled in that dead salmon). Do us a favor and keep your "ews" to yourself.

4. DO be sensitive. If our dog is sick or our cat just had surgery, chances are we're not in the mood to go to a movie. Or get together for martinis. Or hear the details about the gorgeous leather boots you just bought. "The relationship between pet and owner is deep and real, and it is important that the pet lover be able to worry or mourn openly-as one might for a human loved one," notes Alexandra P. Allred, author of Dogs Most Wanted: The Top Ten Book of Historic Hounds, Professional Pooches and Canine Oddities. A little sympathy and understanding goes a long way.

5. DON'T break rules of discipline. Pet owners devote a lot of time and energy to training their dogs and cats, and unfortunately a few unintentional acts can undo a lot of hard work. Feeding a dog who is begging at the table, allowing a cat into rooms she shouldn't be in are all serious no-no's. Says Mills-Cannon, "A housemate of mine used to let my cat sleep on the coffee table when he was definitely not allowed to be up there. It didn't set a good precedent." Respect the rules we set for our pets, and if you're unsure what's acceptable, simply just ask.

6. DO ask before feeding our pet. In the old days it was considered appropriate to toss a pet any old table scrap, but not anymore. Our pets may have allergies, food sensitivities, or a few extra pounds. If you'd like to make friends with our dog or cat, ask us if you can feed a treat to him or her. We'll appreciate it—and you'll have a four-legged friend for life.

7. DON'T treat our pet like a toy. Though they're cute and cuddly, dogs and cats aren't here for your amusement—and they can be easily injured. Kathryn Gage of Birmingham, Ala., recalls the time a neighbor with little pet experience picked up Gage's "tiny, spindly-legged Italian Greyhound"—and accidentally dropped the animal. "She broke his leg!" she exclaims. More recently with her other dog, Gage was horrified when she noticed a friend blithely allowing her little boy to "ride my dog like he was a pony." When in doubt, look, but don't touch—or touch very gently—and teach your children to do the same.

8. DO send a small pet gift on holidays. Christmas, Hanukkah, Easter, Kwanzaa—whatever the holiday is, many pet owners make their dog or cat a part of the celebration. And that's perfectly normal: "Because the majority of people with pets consider their pets family members, it's not unusual at all for them to incorporate the animals into their family rituals," says Clifton Flynn, professor of sociology at the University of South Carolina Spartanburg and chair of the section on Animals and Society of the American Sociological Association. "Doing this is an important way for people to define their animals as unique, reciprocating individuals." It doesn't have to be big or expensive—wrap up a small rawhide or a tiny cat toy and we'll be thrilled.

9. DON'T mention money spent on "just a pet." When my two-year-old yellow Lab had surgery on both legs, my husband and I forked out a whopping $ 6,000 for the vet bill. Molly made a full recovery—but I can't count the number of people who exclaimed, "You're crazy to spend that kind of money on a dog!" One well-meaning acquaintance even said, "I would've just had the dog put to sleep." Excuse me? Euthanize a healthy two-year-old dog? The lesson: Never criticize cash spent on canine friends. After all, we don't tell you how to spend your money.

10. DO ask how our pet is once in awhile. Sure, a pet's not a spouse, or a baby—or even a human for that matter. But during a phone call or catching-up lunch, a small and simple gesture—"How's Scout doing?"—can make our day and show us you care. Graduate to the "Give Buddy a belly rub for me" level and you'll definitely be in our good books!

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Tips on coping with Pet Loss [ Bus1nessN3wz ]

Wendy and Lucky

Our very own beloved pet icon Lucky Diamond passed away on June 5, 2012 – she will never be forgotten.  RIP

It may be endlessly difficult for many people to understand the unique relationship many of us have with our pets.  They are our children, and in that way are irreplaceable.  This theme tends to rise in the sad times when our pet's health begins to waver.  Over the past twelve years, I have helped thousands of people in the throes of pet sickness and pet loss.  Hopefully this advice may comfort you as well in times of need.

Undoubtedly, losing a pet is one of the most excruciating trials a person can undergo.  Over time, and perhaps instantly in many cases, pets come to inhabit an intensely personal and sentimental part of one's life.  They are forever friends, always close and unconditionally loving.  One's relationship with a pet is always unwavering and this inevitably comes due to a grand selflessness on the pet's part.

So how do we move forward once a pet is taken from us?  First of all, know that it is not only possible but critical and significant to do so.

Losing a pet is a monumental experience; its lessons dilate, helping us to navigate life's greater questions.  To sit by your pet as he or she experiences the sadder points of aging is to embolden oneself and come face-to-face with some of life's most enduringly painful, but significant experiences.

A major tip is latent in this comment:  be honest and open about it.  It is important not to live in denial or refuge after a pet's death.  Hard though it may be, it is ultimately vastly helpful to express your emotions as faithfully as they rise within you.  To confront a pet's death head on is to honor the immense feelings shared between you and your pet.  It is an exercise in love in the truest sense.  To give anything less would be to ignore the special space your pet occupied in your life.  It is helpful, to you, to find the courage to feel honestly and openly, for the sooner your emotions are acknowledged, the less time-consuming and difficult moving on will be.

Take as much time as you need.  Many people feel prompted by one pet's death to get another.  While this sentiment is understandable, it is often a shaky attempt to find a new pet to fill its place.  This is a poor choice for a few reasons.  First, it is unfair to a new pet that it has found a home in which it is expected to live up to an old pet's expectations.  Pets should be thoroughly encouraged to embrace their own personalities and idiosyncrasies.  So if you have not yet reconciled a pet's death to the point where you may live at peace with the fact that the special space it occupied cannot be reclaimed, please try to hold off on getting a new pet.  Trust me, a new pet will fill an entirely new space and take on a new importance in ways that will become meaningful to you with time.

There is thus no time frame that dictates when it is all right to get a new pet.  This decision is dependent solely on your psychological sturdiness—whether you have sufficiently worked through the grief of your lost pet will help determines whether you can successfully begin afresh with a new animal companion.  (P.s. when the time comes that you decide on a new pet, try to avoid a look-alike.)

The death of a pet requires both patience and honesty.  Don't let friends or family try to talk down your upset.  It is not true, no matter how often people claim it, that "he was just an animal," or "you'll be fine in a few days".  Just the opposite is true.  You should try with all your might to transform this sunken period of time into one of health and rebirth and remembrance.  Often, we go through the days of our lives without thinking deeply about the relationship we have with our pets.  The time following a pet's death is the perfect time to sit back and reflect on the connection you shared.  This is an important part of the grieving process, which should be seen all the way through.  Ideally, you want your pet to survive unconditionally in your heart and memories as a positive force.  You do not want the harsh memories of its death to override a heartfelt nostalgia.  But without ample time spent consciously grieving, it is difficult to ever move on.

Remember: grief, sadness and pain are very normal, expected, and sincerely human emotions that follow a pet's death.  Do not feel silly or overemotional.  Feel honored to have had such a great relationship with your pet that it truly hurts to have them gone.  This, after all, is the ultimate compliment to the wonderful relationship you shared.

 On Feb 1, 2012, Lucky Diamond was diagnosed with Spleen cancer.  I hope this article is comforting and helpful to anyone who is going through a loss of a pet or suffers from an ill-ridden pet.

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Wendy and Lucky

Our very own beloved pet icon Lucky Diamond passed away on June 5, 2012 – she will never be forgotten.  RIP

It may be endlessly difficult for many people to understand the unique relationship many of us have with our pets.  They are our children, and in that way are irreplaceable.  This theme tends to rise in the sad times when our pet's health begins to waver.  Over the past twelve years, I have helped thousands of people in the throes of pet sickness and pet loss.  Hopefully this advice may comfort you as well in times of need.

Undoubtedly, losing a pet is one of the most excruciating trials a person can undergo.  Over time, and perhaps instantly in many cases, pets come to inhabit an intensely personal and sentimental part of one's life.  They are forever friends, always close and unconditionally loving.  One's relationship with a pet is always unwavering and this inevitably comes due to a grand selflessness on the pet's part.

So how do we move forward once a pet is taken from us?  First of all, know that it is not only possible but critical and significant to do so.

Losing a pet is a monumental experience; its lessons dilate, helping us to navigate life's greater questions.  To sit by your pet as he or she experiences the sadder points of aging is to embolden oneself and come face-to-face with some of life's most enduringly painful, but significant experiences.

A major tip is latent in this comment:  be honest and open about it.  It is important not to live in denial or refuge after a pet's death.  Hard though it may be, it is ultimately vastly helpful to express your emotions as faithfully as they rise within you.  To confront a pet's death head on is to honor the immense feelings shared between you and your pet.  It is an exercise in love in the truest sense.  To give anything less would be to ignore the special space your pet occupied in your life.  It is helpful, to you, to find the courage to feel honestly and openly, for the sooner your emotions are acknowledged, the less time-consuming and difficult moving on will be.

Take as much time as you need.  Many people feel prompted by one pet's death to get another.  While this sentiment is understandable, it is often a shaky attempt to find a new pet to fill its place.  This is a poor choice for a few reasons.  First, it is unfair to a new pet that it has found a home in which it is expected to live up to an old pet's expectations.  Pets should be thoroughly encouraged to embrace their own personalities and idiosyncrasies.  So if you have not yet reconciled a pet's death to the point where you may live at peace with the fact that the special space it occupied cannot be reclaimed, please try to hold off on getting a new pet.  Trust me, a new pet will fill an entirely new space and take on a new importance in ways that will become meaningful to you with time.

There is thus no time frame that dictates when it is all right to get a new pet.  This decision is dependent solely on your psychological sturdiness—whether you have sufficiently worked through the grief of your lost pet will help determines whether you can successfully begin afresh with a new animal companion.  (P.s. when the time comes that you decide on a new pet, try to avoid a look-alike.)

The death of a pet requires both patience and honesty.  Don't let friends or family try to talk down your upset.  It is not true, no matter how often people claim it, that "he was just an animal," or "you'll be fine in a few days".  Just the opposite is true.  You should try with all your might to transform this sunken period of time into one of health and rebirth and remembrance.  Often, we go through the days of our lives without thinking deeply about the relationship we have with our pets.  The time following a pet's death is the perfect time to sit back and reflect on the connection you shared.  This is an important part of the grieving process, which should be seen all the way through.  Ideally, you want your pet to survive unconditionally in your heart and memories as a positive force.  You do not want the harsh memories of its death to override a heartfelt nostalgia.  But without ample time spent consciously grieving, it is difficult to ever move on.

Remember: grief, sadness and pain are very normal, expected, and sincerely human emotions that follow a pet's death.  Do not feel silly or overemotional.  Feel honored to have had such a great relationship with your pet that it truly hurts to have them gone.  This, after all, is the ultimate compliment to the wonderful relationship you shared.

 On Feb 1, 2012, Lucky Diamond was diagnosed with Spleen cancer.  I hope this article is comforting and helpful to anyone who is going through a loss of a pet or suffers from an ill-ridden pet.

For the Best that Pet Lifestyle and animal welfare has to offer follow Wendy Diamond on Facebook, Twitter, and right here at AnimalFair.com!

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Wendy and Lucky

Our very own beloved pet icon Lucky Diamond passed away on June 5, 2012 – she will never be forgotten.  RIP

It may be endlessly difficult for many people to understand the unique relationship many of us have with our pets.  They are our children, and in that way are irreplaceable.  This theme tends to rise in the sad times when our pet's health begins to waver.  Over the past twelve years, I have helped thousands of people in the throes of pet sickness and pet loss.  Hopefully this advice may comfort you as well in times of need.

Undoubtedly, losing a pet is one of the most excruciating trials a person can undergo.  Over time, and perhaps instantly in many cases, pets come to inhabit an intensely personal and sentimental part of one's life.  They are forever friends, always close and unconditionally loving.  One's relationship with a pet is always unwavering and this inevitably comes due to a grand selflessness on the pet's part.

So how do we move forward once a pet is taken from us?  First of all, know that it is not only possible but critical and significant to do so.

Losing a pet is a monumental experience; its lessons dilate, helping us to navigate life's greater questions.  To sit by your pet as he or she experiences the sadder points of aging is to embolden oneself and come face-to-face with some of life's most enduringly painful, but significant experiences.

A major tip is latent in this comment:  be honest and open about it.  It is important not to live in denial or refuge after a pet's death.  Hard though it may be, it is ultimately vastly helpful to express your emotions as faithfully as they rise within you.  To confront a pet's death head on is to honor the immense feelings shared between you and your pet.  It is an exercise in love in the truest sense.  To give anything less would be to ignore the special space your pet occupied in your life.  It is helpful, to you, to find the courage to feel honestly and openly, for the sooner your emotions are acknowledged, the less time-consuming and difficult moving on will be.

Take as much time as you need.  Many people feel prompted by one pet's death to get another.  While this sentiment is understandable, it is often a shaky attempt to find a new pet to fill its place.  This is a poor choice for a few reasons.  First, it is unfair to a new pet that it has found a home in which it is expected to live up to an old pet's expectations.  Pets should be thoroughly encouraged to embrace their own personalities and idiosyncrasies.  So if you have not yet reconciled a pet's death to the point where you may live at peace with the fact that the special space it occupied cannot be reclaimed, please try to hold off on getting a new pet.  Trust me, a new pet will fill an entirely new space and take on a new importance in ways that will become meaningful to you with time.

There is thus no time frame that dictates when it is all right to get a new pet.  This decision is dependent solely on your psychological sturdiness—whether you have sufficiently worked through the grief of your lost pet will help determines whether you can successfully begin afresh with a new animal companion.  (P.s. when the time comes that you decide on a new pet, try to avoid a look-alike.)

The death of a pet requires both patience and honesty.  Don't let friends or family try to talk down your upset.  It is not true, no matter how often people claim it, that "he was just an animal," or "you'll be fine in a few days".  Just the opposite is true.  You should try with all your might to transform this sunken period of time into one of health and rebirth and remembrance.  Often, we go through the days of our lives without thinking deeply about the relationship we have with our pets.  The time following a pet's death is the perfect time to sit back and reflect on the connection you shared.  This is an important part of the grieving process, which should be seen all the way through.  Ideally, you want your pet to survive unconditionally in your heart and memories as a positive force.  You do not want the harsh memories of its death to override a heartfelt nostalgia.  But without ample time spent consciously grieving, it is difficult to ever move on.

Remember: grief, sadness and pain are very normal, expected, and sincerely human emotions that follow a pet's death.  Do not feel silly or overemotional.  Feel honored to have had such a great relationship with your pet that it truly hurts to have them gone.  This, after all, is the ultimate compliment to the wonderful relationship you shared.

 On Feb 1, 2012, Lucky Diamond was diagnosed with Spleen cancer.  I hope this article is comforting and helpful to anyone who is going through a loss of a pet or suffers from an ill-ridden pet.

For the Best that Pet Lifestyle and animal welfare has to offer follow Wendy Diamond on Facebook, Twitter, and right here at AnimalFair.com!

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